so there's this amalgamated thought I have a brewing... i want to try to link where this thought comes from....
so this is, like I said, and amalgamated thought. One of the things you do if you are looking to expand your horizons is intake the thoughts of others in the form of the words they speak and or write and or communicate in a manner that can be understood....
Over the years while I've listened and looked and read and analyzed there seems to be a pattern of speech that talks around one's creative journey and that creatives hang out or associate with creatives and the same goes for non, or in this manner any group of like minded individuals... though you may have those who seem to stand out a bit more than the rest, these are the ones most influential there circle. Leaders especially stand out as the most prominent in this group.
Leaders are these types of people.. x, y, and z, however there is one trait I keep hearing and that is to surround yourself with people that you would like to be. If you have goals and or aspirations that you should not be afraid to blaze your own trail or path... let the haters come. If you have haters then you have succeeded or other such notions. Birds of a feather...
I think there is this balance on finding out about yourself via science, biology, behavioral, stoicism, psychology, philosophy...
but I find that the groups I am most comfortable in typically are not healthy. My social time is not much.. I don't socialize with a large number of people. I have difficulty in making friends... I have a hard time connecting with others, I have put in my head that I don't have time to cultivating new friends per se. That is unless it's part of the crossing paths type. The few social gatherings I do attend throughout the year and or club outings I attend. Plus the mystery events that may or may not pop up as well.
Which is why i am trying to find better groups to socialize in, but yet again I may be moving here. FUCK...
NC is an option that I am not very excited to think about...
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