So I was thinking while I was washing dishes about chores and children and it dawned on me a kick ass way to bond with your kids... sadly I thought of this now after my children are well past that phase of listening to parents. Some are new parents...
So if you want to "give" your children responsibility it has to be built up, this is the bonding that all parents should do. Include you and yourself with the chore, for example this is the number one thing that'll make you have a very long and open relationship with them and yourself... This is one of those things that I think will help with a healthy relationship especially on bonding..
Dishes. We all do them and we all hate it.
As the parent you'll primarily be doing the dishes while your child assist's in some capacity, drying is a good one. Have them clear the table, however they need to clear the plates of food debris, and also wipe down (you should be sweeping). Keep their tasks minimal, gradually teaching them how to wash or sweep. Then at some point you let them do the majority or take turns as long as it's fair and reasonable.
Keep this up till they move out. You now have a great HALLMARK fucking moment... more than once.
Cleaning rooms, bathrooms, yard work, you ALL participate. Sadly this was not what was taught to me and only learned it now.
Is this why we have mental illnesses... so the lack of parental guidance is fundamental and biological and evolutionary.. then settling in cities, the advances of society that have created the Nuclear family and it's continued oppression from the minority while appearing to be beneficial are having severe mental implications that just compound generation after generation.
The loss of tutorship (industries with a long history of apprenticeship, etc), the loss of group familiar activities (church/civic groups/etc.) they have changed but but the traditional ones refuse to see this based on the sheer volume of those who believe in the supernatural based around human specifications aka manufactured artificial. Society is artificial... it's poisonous to humanity based on old tribal superstitions and the continued allowance of harmful practices and the arrogant position of humanity says so what!
This interesting..
France Gall - Laisse tomber les filles 1964
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibsVa4QMyeM
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